In my situation....please help! - Page 3

tiffysmom · 02-08-2008, 02:28 AM

I don't know Canandian law but anywhere in the world if you are not married you can very well do as you want. That lawyer is a jerk. If there is a shelter for battered women in your area call and make an appointment to get information. Tell them your situation and believe me these people know the law very well. That is the most I can do from where I am. God Bless and take care sweetie.

Polly · 02-19-2008, 08:21 PM

oh my goodness, i just read this entire post and I am soooo worried for this poor girl and her baby. I am worried too since it has been so long since she last posted. I hope everything is ok. This is such a scarey situation. Do you suppose that little boy has been put in a dryer at some point and that is why he asked that question? And maybe put outside as punishment? I think there is definitely some abuse in this childs life and it's so sad that no one is getting him any

. And , yeah-where are the school officials in this situation? They sure do get involved when they don't need to be but when there really is a problem, they ignore these kids. Oh I hope everything is ok. I too will be

ing!!

DeeDee · 02-19-2008, 09:16 PM

Polly, its good to see you again.
Yes this lady has been away for a bit but I think her parents are visiting for the week or something. I am hoping they can do something to get her some

or get her moved out of there somehow.

We can only hope and

things are okay and she will be back soon to update us.

tiffysmom · 02-23-2008, 06:50 AM

I was wondering the same thing too. Hi Polly nice to see you. I hope she let us know what is going on. I feel for her.

DeeDee · 02-23-2008, 09:25 PM

So do I Luz but hopefully her parents were able to get her out. I hope she comes in soon though to update us.

Polly · 02-27-2008, 01:50 PM

Hi Luz! Hi DeeDee, good to see you both. I hope she comes in too. It's very worrisome isn't it?

DeeDee · 02-28-2008, 09:33 PM

Yes it is and I was hoping we would have heard something by now. I sure hope we hear soon.

tiffysmom · 02-29-2008, 10:36 AM

I am hoping that she left with her parents maybe they don't have a computer. Hope rings eternal, I guess.

DeeDee · 02-29-2008, 09:22 PM

I have been thinking the same thing Luz. We can always hope anyhow.

momofbpi · 03-01-2008, 07:32 AM

Hi

Havent posted in awhile but man read the rest of this thread I hope that when her parents comes to visit she packs the baby and goes with them to stay where she is is not good for the baby . The boyfriend doesnt want to face that his son has a serious disability and its hard for men to own the fact that there son has a problem they want to believe that everything is normal when its not.

I just

everynight that she gets out of there because shes got the mommy radar that something isnt right and she should go with her gut because she is very correct.

I hope she posts soon so we know shes ok

DeeDee · 03-01-2008, 09:58 PM

Kim, where have you been

? Its been ages since you stopped by. Its great to see you again. I hope you don't become a stranger again now.

Yes this lady has a lot of us worried about her and we are hoping that she left with her parents when they visited her. We haven't heard from her since they were due to arrive. I sure hope she gets in soon to let us know what is going on.

momofbpi · 03-02-2008, 07:01 AM

Hello

I havent meant to be

its been a tough year this year with my boys were having trouble with the school and one of my boys teachers doesnt want to admit he has autism and has done everything to make believe that he isnt and has been giving me trouble. We have asked the school to do an out of district placement for my boys but now we have to have a meeting with the heads of the special education dept. and if they say no then I have to go to the superintendent and get a lawyer we called one for some legal advice and she said she would review the boys cases and do it for 2000.00 and then it would be more if we had to have a legal case against the school. Im so broke right now I cant afford to change my mind.

My weight loss since lap band has went well so far 136 pound and it was just a year in Jan . so the dr. is excited have 60 pounds to go.

Well I hope she appears on the board soon and only signed off because her parents were coming for a visit and nothing more but she needs to get out of there. Im very worried about her also.

I know how hard it is to have 2 boys with autism and they dont have ill will but they can hurt each other when they get going.

but with 4 kids some days Im just so tired I just dont have any energy left to post on the board with my part time job and we have a councelor that comes in once a week to

us learn parenting and autistic kids and such which is

ful but I run out of work to pick my little one up from daycare and run home and they are here make dinner sit with the boys and do homework with them because there teachers expect us to correct it make sure its right before they come to school thats another point i plan to bring up to special ed heads that I thought it was the teachers job to do all the corrections and such. Well enough of me complaining but thats why i havent been around

guys all but I could use some

ers for my kids that the school listens to us on March 18th with an open mind so I dont have to figure out where im going to come up with 2000 to start and more after that.

I need some

ers that

things go well for my boys I shouldnt have to

so hard to get my boys what they need to succeed and man once this is all over and my boys get what they need Ill start spreading the word to others with special needs kids about things that they are supposed to get and dont know about and how to obtain it no one should have to

this hard for there kids to get a good education its terrible and stressful.
Take care ladieshopefully our friend will be back on the board soon.

DeeDee · 03-02-2008, 08:53 PM

Kim, it sounds like you have your hands full there right now. Sorry to hear you are having such problems getting the proper

for your kids and their education. The schooling today is so different, it seems everything today revolves around money.

You should be able to place your boys in whatever school you want without having to see a lawyer etc. This is

. I will keep you in my

ers that things will work out for you soon. Try to keep us posted as to how it goes on the 18th.

Congratulations on the weight loss. You have done fantastic. *******************for you. Have you been on a diet or how did you do this? I need to lose some weight again too.

Yes I do hope our friend comes in soon. I really hope she has gone with her parents and is taking time to get settled before she comes back online again. Hopefully he didn't find this site and read her posts. She may be in more trouble then. We cant' go that route though. We have to hope for the best.
Take care and thanks for stopping in again.

tiffysmom · 03-03-2008, 02:24 AM

Kim here in NY we have something called Children Advocates. Find out if you have it there in Conn. they are free and they

like heck for the kids rights in schools. I think that lawyer is too expensive. If your children were diagnosed by a doctor your board of education cannot dispute this. I went through the same thing, my son is bi-polar and was diagnosed by a doctor after all that was said and done, I got the board of ed. to pay for a private special ed school. He has been there for four years and he has to stay there and finish high school. He is a day student but, they are footing the bill and is not cheap. Check them out and see is you have them in your state. Keep me in the loop and my

ers are with you.

momofbpi · 03-03-2008, 06:49 AM

I have an advocate but I think it will take more than having them unfort . she is well versed in special ed but our schools budget was frozen after christmas I was told by a person I work with. So its going to take everything we have to have this move happen. so

ers that things go our way. Thats what I need.

I had lap-band surgery last jan because my cardiologist told me I wont live to see 60 and since Ill be 40 next month and have 4 kids I wanted to be here so so far lost 136 pounds so far have more to go but its a good start.

Well keep

ers for me that the 18th goes well and hope our friend comes back online soon. Well take care and well keepour

ers going for her too.