This is a hard one! My 11 year old has a friend I and most moms around here do not like.
She steals lies and tunes them ageist each other. She can not play nice as a group.
Most the kids all play in a group and all are
so usually they are all together.
When this girl comes around she will play with only one and get what ever kids she is playing with
To turn on the other kids. The biggest thing is her stealing and her mother does nothing about it
Acts like her kid can do no wrong!
I so want to tell my kid she can not play with her but here is ware don’t like doing this.
1. I can keep a better eye on what my kid is doing if I know who she is hanging around with.
2. I can not stop her when she in school or at a
house I would rather her feel she can talk
to me if something happens when she was spending time with this kid. Don’t want her to feel she has
to hide this on me.
I have told her this kid is not someone that she should want to play with I have told her she is not to go in any store with this kid! And I have let her know any trouble she gets in to if my kid is with her she will
Also get in trouble. I have told her these are not the tepee of
she should wan to have!
I want her to learn on her own who is and is not a good friend.
I have let her know the first time she gets in trouble with this kid or any other she will not be let to be her friend.
Over time this seams to have worked it self out as this kid has been band form my home and all
The other kids as she stole things even money $75 from one mom!
This summer none of the kids hung out with her Only the little first graders that don’t know her.
So I think the kids have learned on there own that she is not a friend they want.
As for what you’re going though I would limit the time he spends with this kid.
Let him know why and let him know you will let them have more time together when
He can learn not to act like this after he gets home.
But I would also try asking your son things about his friend there maybe a resin he is acting
Like this. Maybe this kid is not being very nice to him something maybe going on that you
Don’t know about. If your son say everything is ok you may want to make it ware he is only with him when your there. At your home or maybe taking them to the park or some ware that they can play ware you still
See them but they feel you are not watching them see how they acted together. There maybe something going on you don’t know about. Maybe this kid is mean to him and he doesn’t know how to handle it.
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s in our faces when we ask him to stop 
ing on the bed (or whatever rude behavior he is involved in). He is rude and just does whatever he wants to in our home. I have tried to talk to him many times, but it's like he tunes me out. I dislike him so much that I'm afraid to tell his mother of his abominable behavior because I'm afraid that my dislike of him will shine through. I refuse to have him in our home anymore, yet my son continues to call him on the phone and attempts to arrange play dates with him. On the other hand, his mother has told me that my son keeps her son in line! She said that he behaves so well when my son is around that he is always 
there. What to do?
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