dee421

Good Morning,
let me job back in on this topic, as you read in my prior posts, my daughter was getting married July 6th 2007.
well she did it, they are married.
I wish her all the bets and keep her in my ers.
her hubby has not worked since December, he is not even looking for a job.
my daughter worked in the hospital for 2 yrs, and she decided in may to quit, so here we have 2 out of work,
now all I hear is she can not pay her bills, she needs money for food, and clothing, for her 8 yr old daughter.
I am at the end of my rope with her.
she was doing so good before she got involved with this man, and the best part is he has 4 children of his own,with another lady.
so my daughter has a big attitude with me , because of her own doings.
I never thought i would have to step back from her life. But right now I need to for my own health reasons
I have done and done for her, she owes us 3,500.00 now and she has not paid us anything, we told her 50.00 a month yeah imagine that, but yet she continues to call and about her bills.I got my granddaughter some school clothes, my sister and my mom also got her school clothes.
me and my hubby do not work due to disabilities, so we are on limited income
however my daughter just keeps asking. she needed a cell phone so I added another phone to my account
she was paying it every month no problem, until she moved this guy into her home and handed the phone over to him, so now the bill is 100.00 a month and she only gave me 69.00 for the bill. I paid it in June and July also
I added the amount towards what she already owes us.
I told her 2 weeks ago , if i do not have the full amount for phone I am suspending the service.
what do I do, I guess she does not think I will turn the service off. I have no choice in the matter. I refuse to take my food money to pay for a cell phone bill that my daughter is not even using
he is 34yrs old he can work whats wrong with this picture

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ArmyWife

What would I do? Cry, no actually I would probably pop a cork. My daughter tells me over and over that she loves this guy, yet he beat her so bad on her birthday she had to stay the night in the hospital. Happy Birthday! BAM! Oh I am so frustrated. It has been almost 2 months since they have seen each other as the court has ordered him a no contact order. He calls her late at night or when he thinks we aren't home. I don't hate him as that isn't in my nature. I just don't want her to "think" she loves someone that hits her and does crack.
So I and I trust that they won't get back together. This relationship has caused a lot of friction in the family. They have talked about marriage a few times and I it never happens. More later.

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