Donna0820

Hey I am Donna from Alabama. I have a 15 year old girl who thinks she is 18.... She is driving me I love her too much to not do anything!

She has started likeing BOYS!!! I don't mind that but I have talked with her
about what is allowed and what is not. She does not date till next year
God me. She is a good sweet girl.... But she has a parttime job at the bowlinglanes watching the kidos in the nursery. But I have now found out that
her boyfriend goes up there every night she works. I was told by a good sorce
that her and him were hanging all over each other.... I did confront her and she
said no they were just holding hands. From what lil I know about him....
he seems like a good boy.... but he is more mature than she is. She is always talking to and emailing him..... We have fought over clothes, makeup
the phone you name it.... I am trying really hard to be a good mom and do
my job to protect her..... But I don't know if what i am doing is right or if i am not firm enough with her. I have taken her phone...many times I don't let her
so call hang out with at the mall or such she is also into this music that i hate... it's not the music it's the words...too sexist for a child...I have taken away
her stero ect.... she wanted a site on myspace and i said no way it is asking for trouble... I love her and want to protect her....BUt dam it is hard. I am so scard
I want her to like me and to come talk to me...but i feel like she hates me. I don't know what to do i can't take the s...her mouth is getting sassier everyday.
Does anyone out there have advice or the same problem?


Thanks Donna

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, Donna

Kricket

Well my girls are not there yet....not looking forward to that age....but I'm sure there are a few other mom's here who have gone through what you are going through....

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cltwigs

i am going through the same thing you are..the problems are the same but i am going through it with two kids..my daughter is 14 yrs old, and my son is 15 yrs old..so i have a double whammy. both my kids have a myspace..but they can only be on it if i am watching them..i also have there passwords for everything on the computer so i can check everything out..if i find something i don't like no computer privelages and everything is deleted..let me tell you how many s that i go through daily...now that they are in the same high school should make for a very interesting year for me...they say it gets easier as they grow but i think it will all work it self out..i hope...good luck and if you need advice i will be here..if i can be of any