Dear Momzone,
I Have A Little Bit Of A Situation Here. Ok, Here Goes. My Huband And I Had Put Bothe The Girls To Sleep At 9:00pm. We Waited Untill 12 Midnight To Attempte To Do Anything. Well, Before We Did We Checked The Kids To Make Sure That They Were Ok Like We Alway's Do.
My Husband And I Finally Had Some Time Together. If You Know What I Mean. Anyways.... This Was The First Time In Monthes That We Actully Had Enuff Energy To Attemt This.well, My Husband And I Were In The Act Of Making Love And My Daughter Ran In And Started Screaming."stop Get Off My Mommy, Your Hurting Her" I Really Don't Now How Much She Really Saw But I Now That She Saw Enuff. How Do I Explain To A 3 Year Old About What Mommy And Daddy We Doing? How Do I Even Attempt To
Have A Conversation About This? Please Help Me.
oh my this is a tough one here
being that she is only 3 , there is not really much you can say to her that she would actually understand
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maybe next time lock your bedroom door
We have a hook and eye on our door just tell her that you were playing a game and daddy wasnt hurting mommy at all. But one of ours walked in thats what we said and they said ok just dont give her too much to process she wont understand at that age. My kids are saying ooh gross when my husband and I hug I wanted to say something but they will be learning stuff soon enough theyare 8 and they start stuff in school at 10 so well have to sit down with them soon enough and start talking about some stuff not everything yet. Good luck
Dear Mom's,
I all for your advice. I can't quite explain it but this when her daddy got home she huged him and said that she was not mad a daddy for hurting mama. We explained that he was not hurting me he was getting ride of my bad owee. dose that sound weard? thanks agin.
Wow a tough one for sure. I agree with what Kim says about saying it was a game you were playing. As she said, don't say more than you have to, kids that age forget quick and wouldnt' understand anyhow. Sometimes the more you say, the longer they think about it too.
Glad it worked out for you so well just remember the kids dont need a full explanation it just confuses them at that age you just need to give minumal answers the least bit of info that seems to explain ok is all y ou need usually thats enough to satisfy.
ALL FOR THE HELP. I HAVE NEW IMPROVEMENTS TO THE DOOR. I INSTALLED A CHILD SAFTEY DOOR KNOB THING ON THE DOOR SO SHE CAN'T TURN IT BUT WE CAN WHEN WE SHUT THE DOOD. ALSO AT NIGHT NOW I PUT UP A BABY GATE IN FRONT OF HER DOOR WAY IF JOHN AND I ARE GOING TO TRY TO EVEN DO SOMETHING.