Michelle,
Don't feel too bad about not homeschooling. It is not for every family. Just like traditional education is not for everyone either. I am fortunate that my DD begged to be homeschooled AND that she is usually very responsible and reliable when it comes to getting her work done. (There have been a few times...)
It sounds like with the things that your children are involved with (

and dramatics) that you would have very little time at home if you did homeschool and therefore very little time to get any work completed from home.
Is it difficult to both homeschool and work? YES! But, almost everything we do today is seen as difficult no matter what it is. I think being a SAHM is difficult, and I know how much time it took out of my schedule when my DD was in public school, being a working mom is also difficult, and I really admire my

who are single, working, homeschooling moms for what they are doing. I guess my point is being a good mom is difficult whether we add anything else to the mix or not.
Ladyre