I was raised with brothers who did this stuff.
I was married once and went thru this.
Have children who do this.
Have a partner for the past 5yrs who is not so bad...things do get a little better....except for the pee thing. I don't think the male type can keep all their pee in the toilet. It just spatters.
I've tried to get them to sit down and pee. They agree it's cleaner and neater, but not the male way.
So, what's a woman to do.