Tracy,
I know that it can be hard and frustrating, my husband and

are into the same hobby. But his friend likes the chain mail armor. Luckily, my husband takes care of that part of the making, but leaves the sewing to me. With 3 kids all under 12 I practice my sewing on clothing for them and use the same type of patterns for us. The kids really love this. They have their Halloween costumes in July!! But the look of the finished product is really worth all the aggrevation. I hope that you and your husband will not

over the machine. Try sharing parts of the patterns together. You will get more satisfaction our of it if you can both say you did it together.