Please I need your opinion on this

tiffysmom · 09-07-2008, 05:04 PM

This is what is happening I put those comments away a long time ago. I did nothing wrong so I thought. There is a little girl my daughter is

with, that had told my daughter she liked girls. Then we went to an event with the girls Scouts and she was really out of control and I said to her why are you so annoying? I was

ing mind you. She said I love being annoying and we all

ed it off. We came back home and I let it go. Then that same week we went to see Band Slam a movie that is coming out in 2009 she went with her older sister she was being bad and her sister called her annoying I was

ing because, I remembered what I said. her sister asked what was so funny and I told her I told her the same thing. My daughter said mom she told me again that she does like girls. I told her sister thinking or maybe not thinking it would stop there. Last night I get a message in My Space from her mother telling me that why did I called her daughter annoying and a lesbian. That why do I have to tell people this. The person that called her a lesbian was her own sister because she said that she wanted to be like her lesbian sister and called her a lesbian I would not dare say that little girl is a lesbian she is a little girl. She is my daughter's friend and I know her mother for many years her mother is a very nice and generous person. i really like her a lot. She says she wants to talk but, I am afraid I will lose her as a friend. I really did not mean for this to get to were it went. Any suggestions?

lulu · 09-08-2008, 07:00 PM

Luz, that is a tough one but I think I would just copy what you wrote above and tell her the same thing. Truth first always so there are no other complications down the road. Good luck with that I will be

ing for you and her. Love you!

tiffysmom · 09-09-2008, 04:34 PM

I saw her today my daughter said she gave her a dirty look. I spoke to her briefly and she said its okay you gave me my answer already. When I told her that her daughter was the one that called the other one lesbian she was not too surprised. She was very

towards me anyway I really don't care at this point. I am so tired of all of it that is petty.

DeeDee · 09-09-2008, 09:23 PM

I am just seeing this now Luz but I agree with Lulu. At any rate I think the mother of that little girl is maybe afraid people will find out about her daughter and is embarrassed by it. Hard to say but

that bring you down you don't need.
Good luck.

tiffysmom · 09-13-2008, 06:18 PM

That stuff is allover my daughter school and teachers don't even talk to me teachers that did before. My daughter was very sad she said I should have never said anything to you now you are in trouble. I told my daughter not to worry. There will be other people to talk about it and then they will stop. This is my daughter last year in that school she wanted to stay till the six grade but, practically all her

have gone to others schools because of the crap that goes on there.

DeeDee · 09-14-2008, 06:02 PM

Those teachers that do not talk to you now but did before, I wonder if they have ever heard there are two sides to every story? Before you base your feelings on something you should hear the other side. I think these teachers are very biased and immature. I wouldn't let this bother me any longer Luz. Get on with your life and the truth will all come out in the end. You are doing the right thing.

Audrey · 09-15-2008, 07:57 AM

I am so happy to be done with school. My youngest graduated high school last year. No more school drama